Humility

It's nearly impossible to say everything you want to say in a 35 minute sermon. And especially when it comes to this topic, I doubt a final word could ever be said about it. For that reason, here are some more thoughts and tidbits I picked up along the way while preparing:

1. Before I started writing anything, I read C.J. Mahaney's book Humility. Please read it! It is short--could be read in a few days. Though I went down a different road in my sermon than he does in this book, he is highly cross-centered and gives many helpful ways to combat pride and gain humility.

2. Speaking of C.J., here is a quote of his that mirrors the idea that the soul's desire for acceptance and love is the basis for pride (from Dear Timothy: Letters on Pastoral Ministry):

"...all day long, at the moment you become aware of burdensome cares, cast them upon the Lord, who cares for you. Where there is worry and anxiety; there is the pride of self-reliance. The humble man, though he may be responsible for many things, is free of care--he is care-free. His life is characterized by joy and peace, for it is impossible to be worried while trusting the Sovereign One."

3. Deepak Reju over at 9 Marks wrote a list of questions for pastors they should ask themselves to ascertain if they are really living lives of humility. I have modified them a bit for your use. I thankfully read them a few weeks ago. They helped prepare my heart:

• Where do you turn when you are carrying a heavy burden? Are there others in your life to whom you can turn and show your weakness?
• How often do you struggle with the pride of self-reliance?
• Can your life be described as joyful and peaceful?
• If I asked your spouse to describe your life, what would he/she say?
• Are you willing to ask others for forgiveness?
• Are you willing to ask your spouse and children to forgive you when you mess up?
• Do you find yourself always directing those around you, or do you take the time to really listen to what others have to say?

4. Here is a list of Manifestations of Pride by Stuart Scott. Read 'em and weep.